@Tattie@eldritch.cafe also! I wish I could remember where it was, but there used to be an inclusive online store that had a good questionaire to help narrow down what options might be best based on what you’re looking for. And “Oh Joy Sex Toy” has some good reviews, although I don’t think they’ve been updated in a while. https://www.ohjoysextoy.com/category/comic/review-comic/