Post by @DeadDigger@lemmy.zip

2026-10-31 18:09 UTC

To be honest everyone has emotional triggers like this. For example comparing me with my father makes me very angry. However I kinda think it is a bit wrong to have someone in a very emotional dependant state, which is also not prior discussed as far as I see, perform sexual acts. For me this is a consent Problem.

Replies (4)

@Mistakes@sopuli.xyz 2026-10-31 19:53

I can see the argument, but exploration is part of the journey. I think in this case, intent does matter quite a bit, and it’s clear to me at least that the OP had good intentions.

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@Squirrelanna@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-10-31 21:48

How do you know it wasn’t discussed beforehand? It’s entirely possible finding triggers like this was explicitly one of the goals of their play.

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@tb_@lemmy.world 2026-10-31 23:17

My interpretation is that the sexual act was already ongoing. If they were just, I dunno, hanging out on the couch ans went from that, to the comment, to cumming, that would be a little weird, yeah. But I really don’t think that’s the case. Whether it makes sense to make emotionally sensitive remarks during such acts, I mean, such acts are inherently emotional. And I would assume one has the good sense to know in which ways they can push/explore a little and in which ways they really should not.

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@nerdo@lemmy.zip 2026-11-01 11:26

…that doesn’t mean that everyone does

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