@TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone
2026-10-30 06:08 UTC
I don’t see how this advice would help the OOP at all.
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@nehal3m@lemmy.zip 2026-10-30 06:51
Happy cake day! Joining local, small scale gatherings without the explicit goal of getting a date does a few things. For one it makes you more sociable which will help you be attractive in the long run. For another it helps you meet people. For a third, you’ll have fun doing it. All those things develop you as a person which in the long run improve your odds of happiness, and it’s much easier to date a happy, well developed, sociable person than a miserable incel. And you’ll do it without Silicon Valley’s perverse incentives!